Some of these worked well, others lost me friends. I didn't see why everyone couldn't see! I thought, if I can just get them the same information I've read they'll understand. But we are all leading different lives and have different backgrounds of environmental awareness. The most important thing I've learned about changing others actions is to stop worrying about their actions. The largest impacts I've made are by speaking positively, living my own values, and being willing to talk to others that are interested and ready to see a different path. I appreciate the folks who do this for me as I continue to learn and adjust my life.
One experience that's worked well for me is to give gifts I know someone will appreciate, but reflect the values I'm trying to live by. I stopped giving Christmas gifts in the traditional sense and now give my family a donation in their name to a charity I think they would love to know more about, or I already know is special to them. There were some tears shed this past year and it was really special for me. Another example, for Mothers Day, I got my Mom a flower CSA from a local farm. The gift encouraged her to sign up for a veggie CSA from the same farm. Now we love to grow more veggies as a mother daughter duo and can piles of fruit each year. Our excitement has encouraged my Dad to focus on buying organic when he goes to the grocery store. We're not making perfect decisions but one gift inspired a lot of change in my family.